Mediumship is Sacred Work: What Happens in a Reading (and Why It Matters)

Intro

Mediumship is sacred work. For many people, it is an honour to reconnect with a loved one who has passed on and to feel that love continues.

But a real reading is not performance. It is not something that can be forced.

It is a quiet, sacred space where Spirit comes through by choice, and healing happens in a way that is deeply personal.

Here’s what we’ll cover in this week’s guide:

• Spirit has free will (and what that means for your session)

• What I see when they arrive

• How Spirit brings confirmation you can recognise

• Yes, Spirit keeps their personality

• Why boundaries matter, even in Spirit

Spirit has free will

One of the biggest misconceptions about mediumship is the idea that a medium can “call” a specific spirit on demand.

I cannot force a soul to come forward. They come only if they wish to. Spirit has free will, just as we do. I am simply the bridge.

If a loved one steps forward, it is because they choose to. And when they do, it is with purpose.

What I see when they arrive

When Spirit steps in, I see them in my mind’s eye — but it is not vague or shadowy. It is vivid. Solid. Almost as if I am looking at another living person standing before me. They show themselves clearly.

Often, they will show me the version of themselves you connect with most.

Sometimes they shift - from older to younger - especially to a time when they felt their strongest or happiest. It is beautiful to witness.

How Spirit confirms it is truly them

I always ask for confirmation for my client. And they always provide it.

It may be something small… but deeply personal.

• Your mom’s bead necklaces.

• Your dad’s fishing rod.

• A watch you now keep safe.

They show me what matters, what only you would understand. And that is how you know it is truly them.

Yes, Spirit keeps their personality

Sometimes there are lighter moments too. Spirit keeps their personality.

The funny one remains funny. The serious one remains serious.

I once had a male soul step forward, give one short message, and then simply say he is busy, and disappear. I was so puzzled. But that was his personality. Direct. No fuss. Message delivered.

And then there was the Italian grandfather…

I forgot to block the others from coming in, and suddenly an entire Italian family arrived.

They set a table. Some were cooking. I could smell fresh bread so vividly it was almost overwhelming.

They were talking - loudly - all at once. I even heard a few Italian words, which shocked my client. I cannot speak Italian to save my life. We both had a good giggle.

Why boundaries matter (even in Spirit)

Lesson learned. Boundaries matter, even in Spirit.

Mediumship is sacred work. It is not theatre. It is not performance.

It is connection, healing, and love continuing beyond the veil.

Conclusion: sacred work, real healing

If you are feeling called to book a session, come with an open heart.

A reading is not about forcing an outcome. It is about creating space for what is meant to come through, with love and purpose.

If you would like to book a private reading, visit my booking page or message me directly to find a time that feels right for you.

With love,

Landy 🤍